The current 335i manual mode is activated via first pull either one of the paddles, this will engage into manual mode but will not engage into any specific gear, but rather user get to flip one more time to engage the gear. If the 2nd flipping of either paddles is not executed within a given time limit (eg. say 3-5 seconds), the mode will reset to normal D mode. This is what i heard from the 335i owner and i believe there's a module controlling this. But whether or not it can be retrofitted into E90 325, i am not sure.