OK here is a picture of what going into your car. It a plug-in relay come with base. That way if the relay contact is worn out, you just change the relay without having to do any soldering..
I will not shocked you with the wires that I am going to cut... snip snip.. no for the faint hearted.

I will not shocked you with the wires that I am going to cut... snip snip.. no for the faint hearted.