find and open the diagnostic connector in the engine compartment. it's locatated near the left fender, black, round, plastic, and has a screw top lid. when you open it, you'll see a bunch of pin sockets with numbers located next to them.
turn you car on the "on" position, don't start the motor though. now locates pins 7 and 19. now place a wire between the two pins. count to 5 seconds and remove to reset the oil lights. count to 11 seconds and remove to reset the inspection and oil lights.
close lid, shut hood, and you should be done.