Thanks, Kevster30 - what a remarkable chronicle of a wish-list!! 
1. Locate a good condition car. Preferably a coupe with nice body panels with form fitting alingment. Interior should be sound. Done!!
2. Strip it down to the shell and cart it over to a reutable panter and sort out that meticulous paint-job that you have always dreamt about. Olivine please .....
4. Suspension: Bilstein sport kit, Ireland Engineering sways and struts. These I CANNOT live without. How much you reckon these will cost??
6. LSD: beg, borrow, steal.......without one, this entire exercise would be futile. Where can I beg for one, and what does this do??
8. Wheels: Beg, borrow, steal a set of BBS 2-piece basketweaves 16" I'm running 15" and Chris Cab had a 17" set for sale ..... but 16"?? I agree 16" looks great on the e30.
9.Bodykit? I'll leave it stock this time round ...... We're on the same page!!
10. Interior: Black Leather please ........ errr ..... please sir, may I have Dakota leather??