you seem to have look at all angle. try the drive shaft..
you still have not informed whether you have the vibration when the car is stationary.
Apparently your problem is related to 4K RPM rather than speed.
If the vibration is detected when the car is stationary, you can use a vibration monitor to measure the amplitude (peak to peak). Further analysis of the vibration can also be determined by measuring the velocity (mm/sec).